Who’s Your Christmas Hero?

I’m much better today. The itching is tolerable and the redness is subsiding. Thanks so much everyone for your concern and well wishes. I’ve been wanting to do this post for a while now before I got sick so here goes.

Black Friday; the instant replay over and over again of the Walmart worker who was trampled to death by shoppers so driven to get a bargain on more junk to fill their homes they lost all respect for human life. The constant repetition of this video did nothing to lessen its impact on me. I was sickened by people so indifferent and callous to human life that a television on sale would cause them to trample a fellow human. Unmitigated greed for “things” has taken over some people’s lives.

But are we really that depraved? Evil always commands more attention and sells papers. But what about the good in the world? We are surrounded by unsung heroes; those who go about helping others silently and without fanfare, without needing their names in the press or an acknowledgment of their good deeds.

As we approach Christmas, let’s share stories of people who have inspired us with their selflessness. Let’s focus on our humanity and the spirit of Christ within us.

I have never shared this story before with anyone (except my husband of course) but I thought I’d share the story of my Christmas hero with you.

Flash back to Christmas 1999. My son was a teenager and a video game fanatic. Sony Playstation was coming out with a new model just in time for the holidays and that was the ONLY thing he wanted. So did everyone else. The Playstations were nowhere to be found.

Every day, our conversations went like this:

“Did you find the Playstation yet?”

“No, I can’t find it anywhere.”

“You know I don’t want anything else. I have to have that. You’ve got to find it for me.”

If you’ve lived with teenagers, you know they can get particularly whiny if they think they are not getting their way.

I got tired of the daily drama and my patience was wearing thin.

If I never heard about that darn Playstation again, it would be too soon.

Isn’t this supposed to be the season of joy?

Not for me as the black cloud known as Playstation loomed over my life.

After hours of daily searching, I finally found one of those darn machines online. Of course, it was overpriced but my son had to have it so I went ahead and bought it. I took some consolation in the fact that I had saved my son’s life from certain ruin and Christmas peace would reign at our house.

Fast forward to a few days before Christmas.

I was wrapping presents with my son. The radio was on as background noise. The broadcast that day was about our local children’s hospital and the children who would spend their holidays there fighting for their lives. The DJ spoke about the playroom there and how donations were needed.

Later that day, my son once again asked me if I had gotten him the Playstation for Christmas. I was about to retort with something less than kind but he interrupted me and said, “No, Mom, you don’t understand. I want to know if you got it because I would like to give it to those children we heard about today. For their playroom. I want them to have it for their Christmas present.”

Is this my son? The one who was going to die if he didn’t get this big boy toy?

My son and I delivered the Playstation to the radio station that day. The were so touched by the gesture they wanted to interview my son on the air but he refused. He didn’t want it to be about him. It was all about the children.

He grew up that day right before my eyes.

That’s the story of my Christmas hero.

Who is yours?

Email me your stories at redpinemountainatgmail.com and I’ll publish them on my blog. Let the true spirit of the season shine.

(6) Comments
Vixen said:

Such an amazing story! How blessed you are to have such a son and blessed he is to have you for a mom.

PS: I am allergic to sulfa drugs too!

Date: December 10, 2008

wildcatsthree said:

What a wonderful story, and even more so because he was just a child when he did such a selfless thing.
My heroes would have to be my parents. When we were kids, my dad made a modest income and my mom was a homemaker so we didn’t have much money for extras. But we were never aware of how tight money was as they always made Christmas so exciting and fun. We may not have gotten as much as some of our friends, but our gifts were always special to us, most times homemade and one of a kind so they held a deeper appreciation to us. Dad was a very handy and loved working with wood and mom sewed beautifully and was a crafter long before it was in fashion. One year when I was about 7 I found a picture of a wooden cart (table decoration) that I took to dad and asked if he’d help me make it for mom for Christmas. We spent many hours in his workshop on our secret project, and when it was done it looked even better than the picture. It was so much fun working with him and seeing how much he loved puttering on projects, changing and tweaking it to make it a one of a kind item. And mom loved it – she kept it out on the table and put different flowers and greenery in it for the changing seasons for years. I was so proud that I had a hand (though very small) in making it for her. They have inspired me to be a do-it-yourselfer like them, and not afraid to take on any project, and I owe everything I am to them.

Date: December 10, 2008

domesticgoddess said:

It is really unfortunate that people are so obsessed about getting a great price on a Wii or an XBox that they will trample anyone to get it not matter if it kills the person or not. I think more people need to realize the importance of Christmas and not worry about making sure little Johnny has what he wants. I don’t really have a Christmas hero but your son is amazing!

Thank you for the blog love!

Date: December 10, 2008

ga.farmwoman said:

First thing, I am so happy you are feeling better!
Second, I had left a nice long comment and the blogger came up duplicate error. (I will try again)

Now, where was I??
One of my favorite Christmas heroes just happens to be my husband.
We have never made a big deal on giving each other gifts because we have all we need.
Don’t get me wrong, we’re definitely not rich, we just are not into a lot of material goods.
One year we were lean on money so I wasn’t expecting anything for Christmas.
Much to my surprise, my husband had built me a beautiful corner cabinet to put my dishes in. To top that off he also made me a wooden stool to sit at the sink for those long sessions of peeling, washing, and processing the produce we grow in the summer.
Then to top that off he made the cutest wooden silverware holder that hangs on the wall. He even did basket weaving (with thin wood pieces) in it.
He didn’t have extra money for stain so he had to mix several left over colors together for a one of a kind color. A pretty cherry look.
Yep, that ole FarmMan of mine is one of a kind Christmas hero to me!

Have a great day
Pam

Date: December 10, 2008

Tracey said:

Glad you are feeling better!! What a truly amazing, giving and selfless thing your son did!! You obviously raised him well!!

Date: December 11, 2008

Karen, author of "My Funny Dad, Harry" said:

Yay for the teens! Sometimes they really come through, don’t they? What a wonderful thing to do and what a great memory too!

Date: December 11, 2008